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17 May 2006

Dr. McDreamy, Mr. McDarcy, same diff

Filed under: Jane in the News — Mags @ 11:22 pm

Alert Janeite Deborah wrote to tell us that Maureen Dowd’s column in the New York Times today included a reference to Jane Austen. The column is not available online for free but Deborah helpfully sent the money quote.

In discussing Shonda Rhimes, the creator of the TV show “Grey’s Anatomy,” Dowd writes:

“She resisted pressure to make the women nicer, she told Nikki Finke for Elle Magazine. And she told Time that she wanted to write about real women who are ‘a little snarky’ and don’t ‘exist purely in relation to the men in their lives.’ With the male characters, she followed Jane Austen’s lead and conjured up her fantasy men.”

While we can enthusiastically get behind the concept of snarky women, we would hope that Jane Austen’s heroes are more than just vague fantasy figures. In our opinion, the heroes (not the bad boys!) are the kind of men that women should aspire to meet: kind, generous, intelligent, confident, loving men who treat the women they love with respect. We are not so lost to cynicism as to think that such men exist only in fantasies.

8 Responses to “Dr. McDreamy, Mr. McDarcy, same diff”

  1. Sylvia Says:

    We are not so lost to cynicism as to think that such men exist only in fantasies.
    I sincerely hope not! :)

  2. Cristina Says:

    A real world without Mr Darcys? Bah - what would be the point?

  3. Sandra Says:

    Was Darcy such a universally-acknowledged gush object before P&P2? He’s not even my favorite Austen hero; I’d rather have Frederick Wentworth. I’m not nearly tough enough to battle Mags and/or Kathleen for Henry Tilney. :)

  4. Cristina Says:

    Just thought:

    Girl just out from seeing Becoming Jane: ‘What do you mean, fantasy men? Aren’t they all based on Tom Lefroy who made such a BIG impact on her?!’

    :P

  5. robin Says:

    kind
    generous
    intelligent
    confident
    loving
    treat the women they love with respect.
    All is not lost! Many Some men can manage at least one or two of the above.

  6. Mags Says:

    I’m sure Mrs. Robin would agree. :-)

    Sandra, put down Da Man and back away slowly. ;-) And yes, Darcy was a gush object. I once was at a JASNA program about various film incarnations of Darcy and the Women of a Certain Age were all swooning over Sir Larry.

  7. Sandra Says:

    Hey, I said I’d rather have Frederick! You know me, can’t resist those epaulets. ;)

  8. Julie B. Says:

    Her heroes are all flawed, so they’re definitely not imagined examples of Male Perfection. Although Mr. Darcy’s wealth is not exactly commonplace.

 

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